Positive attitude keeps us in positive state of mind. It is easier to dust off
past failures and get back to the present with such an attitude.
A person with negative attitude often plays blame game and never accepts
responsibilities. This restricts life and success at work will be limited too.
Fewer friends, lesser enjoyment and limited relationships become the part of
life of a person with such a fatalistic and erratic attitude.
Good news is that one can cultivate a few traits to develop a positive attitude.
Traits to build a positive attitude:
Focus on Positive aspect
We always look for faults and forget to see positive vibes. If we condition our
mind to read positive things, we are bound to have positive personality.
Remember, in goldmines, people focus on Gold and not on dirt and dust that
comes out while digging. If you focus on negative, you spread negative messages
and create environment conducive to negative results.
Cultivate the habit of living in the present and doing it now. A completed task
is fulfilling and energizing and an incomplete task drains energy. Most of us
have the habit of dragging and postponing things, consequently we always find
our selves in planning and analyzing mode and actual action never takes place.
Focus on virtues
Focus on knowledge and wisdom and not on grades. Educating the mind and not
developing moral create menace in the society. Wealth without character and
conscience is a waste. If you are not trustworthy, you have no credibility.
Trust is a capital, once lost very difficult to regain.
Apart from 5 god gifted senses, we have a sixth sense – commonsense, that we
develop over the time. It is the sense that enables us to take right decision
at the right time. If you lack commonsense, it is useless how strong your other
senses are. I have seen many walking encyclopedia and living failure simply for
Self-Esteem is the way we feel about ourselves. Self-Esteem is the feeling of
gratification that has nothing to do with success and winning. When you do
something for others, you feel good, you are at you best and your self esteem
gets a big boost. No matter how rich or poor you are, a person with high self
esteem definitely touches high goals in life.
Avoid negative influences
We are born achievers and winners. It is the negative influences and environment
that conditions our mind to be a loser. We all are impressionable to varying
degree and thus required stay in the company of well motivated people.
Learn to like the task
Never hate your work, perform with utmost passion, result is guaranteed. When I
asked a mother that how she could manage to take care 3 demanding kids. She
said that it was a job she loved.
Practice having positive thoughts and behavior daily
Just as you feed your body with food everyday, treat you mind with positive
thoughts everyday. Our mind is most receptive in the morning. Repeating healthy
thoughts in the morning conditions your mind to be positive and ultimately
becomes your habit. Success and positive thoughts go hand in hand.
Sir, How can I think positive and apply it on my profession.Please help me .
Guru Vachan 08-24-2013 09:23 AM
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shilpa pathak 06-23-2013 03:55 AM
i like the thought in which you say ......... its true
Repeating healthy thoughts in the morning conditions your mind to be positive and ultimately becomes your habit. Success and positive thoughts go hand in hand.
vandana 04-26-2013 07:47 AM
Thanks for tips on positive attitude
Thank you for your post. These are interesting tips. We must follow to grow in life