Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal

Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal


In the ever-changing world, the one thing that people still can’t accept openly is losing the virginity before marriage. It is a sensitive topic especially in the regions where people are more attached with their culture and values. It is true for the countries like India where even love marriages or live in relationships are not accepted easily. Even the teenagers especially girls consider it to be big and cathartic event of life. The matter gets really serious and intense at times. Are you one of those people? Do you really thing losing virginity before marriage is a big deal?

Yes

• In this world, every that thing that cannot be regained after it’s lost is considered as invaluable and precious.

• Virginity is not about sharing a physical relationship with other but it is more about sharing trust and belongingness with other.

• The first time early mistakes done in the teenage can prove costly for lifetime. Sometimes damages are irreversible.

• In the country like India where women are considered as God, virginity becomes a certificate of character for them.

• When it comes to girls, it doesn’t get over in a short time but leads to deeper emotional consequences afterwards.

No

• People have a habit to make haste out of waste, and when something has to happen at sometime, then why to make a fuss out of it.

• Getting intimate with any person is a matter of choice and cannot be confined to the defined limits.

• Character cannot be judged on the basis of virginity. If that had been the case, most of the guys should be proved characterless.

• Whenever virginity is talked about it is confined to women, if men are not bounded with the terms, why should women be?

• Virginity has nothing to do with the long term relationships or commitment. If it had been the case, most of the arranged marriages must have been successful.

Conclusion

Since ages, people are following the concept that virginity is the gift from the two partners after their marriage. However, in the present world, the concept is changing. It is more of a personal preference and choice what the partners want. The only thing is that the decision should be made with due consideration. In any case, it should not hinder the happiness and peace of your life.
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  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Ram (06/22/16)
  • I think it depends on situation. Virginity of a woman is not a symbol of purity but a symbol of loyalty towards her husband. Loosing virginity is the first sexual(vaginal) encounter of a woman with a man or vice versa. Well it can happen at anytime, mostly during a sexual assault in Eastern countries and a hook up in Western nations. I don't think the loss of virginity plays a major role in a successful marriage. However, women should avoid casual sex as they are not designed to have sex with any man like a man. It is because when woman involves in an orgasmic sex with a wrong man, then she feels attached to the man because of a love hormone oxytocin which is released during orgasm. Men however don't get attached to women due to lack of oxytocin. So if a woman enjoys casual sex, then she becomes less marriageable as no man will ever satisfy her sexual needs. So a virgin women or a women who prefer long term relationships are always suitable for marriage.
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  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Aleya (03/29/16)
  • Though virginity is a very private matter but it vibrates our mind when it comes to marriage.No doubt it is a very very precious thing which must need to be preserved only for that particular person whom we trust the most i.e our life partner.
    But in my perspective nowadays the most burning reason for almost all the breakups ,divorces is TRUST.This is the only thing matters to sustain a happy ,prosperous married life.We can not judge someone by the tag 'virginity' .Truth must be spoken as early as possible but strictly before marriage cause truth has the strength to make up all the mistakes .We have to consider in which circumstance he /she has loosen their virginity,may be she has been molested and raped by masked so called jerk human beings ,or may be he/she was in love madly deeply,who them or may be its his/her own will.Truth must be spoken.Not to hide anything you are going to spend your whole life.
    There are plenty of cheep fake people are wandering around us who may switch her/his partner after marriage being greedy of money ,fame etc.
    If we select a non-virgin but trustworthy ,original person instead of a virgin ,traitor person , certainly they will live their happiest life without all anxieties.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -megha krishnawat (02/21/16)
  • For every person who says yes to this:
    Every girl faces some kind of sexual misbehaviour in their life from their childhod to teenage...Who does this?so males(boys or adults) i think if one wants their wife to be a virgin..then he should behave himself.I m talking to each male person in this world. you protect your mothers and sisters...you take oaths for protecting your sisters on some festivals(raksha bandhan and bhaiyya duj) .Are you applying the same rule to your girlfriends,classmates,neighbours or any other girl.
    Who is responsible for rape cases?
    Who are boys to judge whether a girl is characterless or not?
    At first boys shuld learn to behave themselves then expecting anything from a young girl...
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Sethuraman (11/22/15)
  • Yes it is,let me justify it why..as a guy/girl u would have expectation abt your would be(salary,job,height weight etc..),if that expectation is with regard to virginity that's nothing wrong,People who say losing virginity is not a big deal,I am completely with you PROVIDED you DON'T LIE ABOUT YOUR PAST when asked about your previous relationship's,stuffs that are too personal for you may be some one else's priority,I am not talking abt a tissue called hymen am talking abt human emotions,So when ur expectations are not met u can very well call it a cheating because you are emotionally let down,If u made a decision in your life stand up for it instead of cowardly denying it,so to summarize it losing virginity may not be a big deal for some,But calling your would be a hypocrite just because his/her expectation is not modern is height of hypocracy,After all every one of us here have expectation's ! GROW UP !
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Purva banthiya (09/29/15)
  • Well obviously loosing virginity before marriage is not a sign that uh are characterless.It certainely depends upon ur circumstances and ur physical requirements.The only condition is before entering into a relationship especially in terms of marriage one should make things clear crystal.So that it need give rise to any tussle later.and when it comes to trust and
    love..once things are clear..everything will go smoothly.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -atanu dey (09/28/15)
  • in my point of view losing virginity is not a big deal....because every people are not meant for having sex with their partner but they may had some emotional content.....i dont think that its a big deal for boys so why girls r suspected in terms of their virginity.....character has nothing to do with virginity.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -SWATI GUPTA (09/17/15)
  • I would like to raise few things... We say we are secular. We don't believe in gender discrimination. We say we are unite. In fact our legal mandates prohibit gender discrimination. Art 14 of Constitution says all are equal before law. I have read over all the articles. People are saying we treat women as a goddess. some of said, in our Indian culture women are treated as a god so they should think before losing virginity.
    After reading this i am shocked that once a man rape a girl that time he never thinks that he is raping a god, even when women are becoming subject to domestic violence then they are not a god figure or when we forced women for child marriage or we forced them to prostitution when women become subject to harassment at workplace at home then why we don't treat them as a god. then how we trend to forget our Indian culture. here people are remembering that our Indian culture does not permit women to loose their virginity because they are given a status of a god. we should also remember that in ancient India women were given a royal treatment. they were having a right to study what they wanted to, to choose their life partner, equal participation in work field. now in 21 century things have been changed. women position in India is getting deteriorated and they are subject to every cruelty. then why we forget that women are still in a position of a god. first treat a women like a god. respect her, give her a freedom to think, to live, to work, to speak.

    we do talk about unity , we say we don't believe in gender Discrimination but once its a debate of virginity before marriage or on a character then why always women before subject to repercussion, why not boys. once all are equal then boys also should take care of there virginity. today we are in a 21 century and women are self independent. if you need a certificate of our virginity then we request you to prove that you are a man of versatile character then raise your alarms

    Draupadi married to a five man, she was treated as one of the most respectful women in Indian history. I would suggest all the people of country that character of women is not subject to her virginity. character is a virtue and it is evaluated through person's act and deeds. Please don't involve Indian culture in it because Indian culture does not permit you to rape a women, disrespect her, harass her, beat her, burn her. stop putting lame ideas just to prove a women characterless.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -hemendra pal (09/16/15)
  • A. Whenever a man and woman indulge in sexual
    intercourse, the astral bodies (also called ‘subtle
    body’ or mind body) of the man and woman merge
    together, and forces get created in the cosmos that
    are fully conducive for the birth of a new child. The
    connection thus formed between man and woman
    during intercourse produces an astral, umbilical-
    cord-like tube in the lower astral-plane world (the
    appearance of this astral tube is somewhat cloud
    like in color, about six inches in diameter and can
    be clearly seen when the astral body of the person
    concerned is viewed by deep meditation). The tube
    gets thicker, stronger and denser with every repeat
    act of sexual intercourse.
    Why has God created this astral tube?
    The basic function of this tube is to ensure genuine
    feelings of trust, true love, affection; understanding,
    sacrifice and bonding are produced between a
    legally wedded husband and wife, though they
    were strangers to each other before marriage. It is
    through these tubes that two complete strangers
    who had never known each other get the feelings
    to stay by each other, be loyal to each other and
    help each other in times of need. In other words,
    this channel acts as the means by which the
    couple exchanges thoughts, ideas, feelings and in
    general communicates with each other at the astral
    level. It helps in transmitting the true and
    unconditional love that should exist between a
    husband and wife. This astral tube is really a
    channel through which all the ingredients
    necessary for a couple to stay together and form a
    healthy and a happy family unit flow through. It is
    a channel which is designed to work fine and
    produce wonderful results when present between
    the husband and wife only. Period! Its purview is
    limited to one man, one woman and the man and
    lady are none other than the husband and wife.
    Effect of promiscuity:
    When a man or woman has numerous affairs
    leading to sexual relationships with many people
    via casual sex, a huge population of people gets
    connected to one another through many ‘astral
    tubes’. A great mass of astral matter envelops
    them without their knowledge as they go from one
    sex partner to another. If such a person’s astral
    body were to be viewed through meditation, it
    would show N-number of astral tubes branching
    out to numerous people.
    Now the purpose of the astral tube was to help
    develop a strong wedlock and form a strong family
    unit; but the man or woman who has multiple sex
    partners has no intention of settling down with any
    one person. All he or she is looking for is
    momentary sexual gratification, nothing more and
    nothing less. Also, most such relationships are
    fueled by selfish, evil motives such as
    manipulation, conquest, lust and a ‘Use and throw’
    attitude. Ninety-nine times out of a hundred, the
    people don’t have an iota of regard, respect,
    concern or understanding for each other and are
    motivated by sheer passion and lust. There is a
    total absence of seeing each other as individuals
    and what is present is only the perspective of
    viewing each other as ‘objects of sex’. Once their
    questionable motives are sated, they desert and
    move on to another person thereby possibly
    hurting and wrecking the opposite party at the
    mental, emotional and psychic levels. This creates
    a strong ‘karmic’ reaction in the cosmos. The hurt
    and aggrieved person might have been promised
    marriage or a steady relationship and would have
    developed expectations regarding the same at an
    intense emotional and psychic level. The moment
    all his/ her hopes and dreams are crashed by utter
    betrayal resulting from the breakup, these very
    same hopes, affections and feelings turn into a
    dense mass of jealousy, bitterness, revenge and
    hatred. And the very ‘astral tube’ which was
    formed between the two and still exists strong and
    firm, now becomes a channel through which these
    negative energies flow between each other. This
    causes worry, fear, emotional instability and a lack
    of peace of mind between both the parties
    involved.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -hemendra (09/16/15)
  • A. Whenever a man and woman indulge in sexual
    intercourse, the astral bodies (also called ‘subtle
    body’ or mind body) of the man and woman merge
    together, and forces get created in the cosmos that
    are fully conducive for the birth of a new child. The
    connection thus formed between man and woman
    during intercourse produces an astral, umbilical-
    cord-like tube in the lower astral-plane world (the
    appearance of this astral tube is somewhat cloud
    like in color, about six inches in diameter and can
    be clearly seen when the astral body of the person
    concerned is viewed by deep meditation). The tube
    gets thicker, stronger and denser with every repeat
    act of sexual intercourse.
    Why has God created this astral tube?
    The basic function of this tube is to ensure genuine
    feelings of trust, true love, affection; understanding,
    sacrifice and bonding are produced between a
    legally wedded husband and wife, though they
    were strangers to each other before marriage. It is
    through these tubes that two complete strangers
    who had never known each other get the feelings
    to stay by each other, be loyal to each other and
    help each other in times of need. In other words,
    this channel acts as the means by which the
    couple exchanges thoughts, ideas, feelings and in
    general communicates with each other at the astral
    level. It helps in transmitting the true and
    unconditional love that should exist between a
    husband and wife. This astral tube is really a
    channel through which all the ingredients
    necessary for a couple to stay together and form a
    healthy and a happy family unit flow through. It is
    a channel which is designed to work fine and
    produce wonderful results when present between
    the husband and wife only. Period! Its purview is
    limited to one man, one woman and the man and
    lady are none other than the husband and wife.
    Effect of promiscuity:
    When a man or woman has numerous affairs
    leading to sexual relationships with many people
    via casual sex, a huge population of people gets
    connected to one another through many ‘astral
    tubes’. A great mass of astral matter envelops
    them without their knowledge as they go from one
    sex partner to another. If such a person’s astral
    body were to be viewed through meditation, it
    would show N-number of astral tubes branching
    out to numerous people.
    Now the purpose of the astral tube was to help
    develop a strong wedlock and form a strong family
    unit; but the man or woman who has multiple sex
    partners has no intention of settling down with any
    one person. All he or she is looking for is
    momentary sexual gratification, nothing more and
    nothing less. Also, most such relationships are
    fueled by selfish, evil motives such as
    manipulation, conquest, lust and a ‘Use and throw’
    attitude. Ninety-nine times out of a hundred, the
    people don’t have an iota of regard, respect,
    concern or understanding for each other and are
    motivated by sheer passion and lust. There is a
    total absence of seeing each other as individuals
    and what is present is only the perspective of
    viewing each other as ‘objects of sex’. Once their
    questionable motives are sated, they desert and
    move on to another person thereby possibly
    hurting and wrecking the opposite party at the
    mental, emotional and psychic levels. This creates
    a strong ‘karmic’ reaction in the cosmos. The hurt
    and aggrieved person might have been promised
    marriage or a steady relationship and would have
    developed expectations regarding the same at an
    intense emotional and psychic level. The moment
    all his/ her hopes and dreams are crashed by utter
    betrayal resulting from the breakup, these very
    same hopes, affections and feelings turn into a
    dense mass of jealousy, bitterness, revenge and
    hatred. And the very ‘astral tube’ which was
    formed between the two and still exists strong and
    firm, now becomes a channel through which these
    negative energies flow between each other. This
    causes worry, fear, emotional instability and a lack
    of peace of mind between both the parties
    involved.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Sangram (08/25/15)
  • Firstly I think if one falls in love with someone and they attain a stage of maturity in their relation & if they get physical i don't think there is a big deal in this.

    Secondly if the girl who is in love loses her virginity but marries the same guy then i don't think it is a big deal.

    Concluding i think this is the question of personal choice n people should not judge the girl/s on these basis as this is not the certificate of character. . . !!
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Ankit (08/23/15)
  • I think that all of us are thinking right to our own aspects ..but the thing is that instead of considering this fact of whether losing virginity before marriage is a big deal or not ,we should consider the situation..we all are just very tend to talk and start giving our opinions on various matters but just besides talking about it and giving it a certificate of bad character, we should not forget that there may come situations in every person's life when one unknowingly may commit a mistake ..but it doesn't that he can never overcome of this ..we all should be given an environment where REGRETING about some mistake is possible..it should be accepted by the society..nor a person should be made to feel shame and sorry for ever commited mistake..

    Finally I want to say that "Sometimes the person who ever passed into darkness would be the person who can better understand the importance of LIGHT"..so instead of making it a big issue one must ensure that the mistake will not be repeated ..one must never forget the lessons learn from one's past .
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Ankit (08/23/15)
  • I think that all of us are thinking right to our own aspects ..but the thing is that instead of considering this fact of whether losing virginity before marriage is a big deal or not ,we should consider the situation..we all are just very tend to talk and start giving our opinions on various matters but just besides talking about it and giving it a certificate of bad character, we should not forget that there may come situations in every person's life when one unknowingly may commit a mistake ..but it doesn't that he can never overcome of this ..we all should be given an environment where REGRETING about some mistake is possible..it should be accepted by the society..nor a person should be made to feel shame and sorry for ever commited mistake..

    Finally I want to say that "Sometimes the person who ever passed into darkness would be the person who can better understand the importance of LIGHT"..so instead of making it a big issue one must ensure that the mistake will not be repeated ..one must never forget the lessons learn from one's past .
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Praval (07/31/15)
  • As I think It is a big deal but we can not relate it with the character of that particular girl. Virginity is not a standard of measuring someone. As in Indian society some people make it as a measure of character. For those people it doesnt care what was the reason and what was the circumstances that make the girl losses her virginity. For them it is easy to put their views whether this girl is good or characterless by knowing that she is virgin or not.
    Conclusion->
    We can not predict someone on the basis of their virginity. Our society has to change their mentality. Because virginity does not assures a successful relationship.and a girl who is not virgin can become a good partner for the rest of the life
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Aamir malik (07/30/15)
  • I would like to ask a question from the boys who says losing verginity before mrrg is nt a big deal nd its a thinking of narrowminded people.
    If a girl lose verginity would u marry her???
    I think u should not because every one need a girl who nt make any ohysical relationship wd other before mrrg.

    So girls also think about this nd should nt lose their verginity before mrrg by themself in other cases like raped can be tolarated by society but wd their choice no one can accpt u.
    the gays who says this is right so if ur sis goes to lose verginity wd her choice so what u thnk nd what u do if u came to know this so its a big deal to kose verginity before mrrg.
    But there is one more think if a girl lose verginity so wd her a boy akso lose her verginity so why always we qus about girls verginity why nt boys???
    This is the big question can anyone ans this to me or the whole world
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -LILENDAR (07/29/15)
  • In my opinion i would say like ya its a big deal, as once get caught by our parents who suppose it as a bad character wont forgive easily.also i thing we dont have proper knowledge about sex education so if any mistake happens during the process we may land up in problem .
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Avinash sharma (07/29/15)
  • in my view ,it is not a problem. Virginty problem is depends only on our engaged partner how he would take it. because u have to live with him not with others.so before marry tell him about you virginity and if he break the marrige due to this reason.....thank to god .God saved u...:P
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Sagar Pawar (07/29/15)
  • According to me losing virginity before marriage is personnel thing i think it depends on the person. Now a days it is not a big deal to lose virginity before marriage. One can not define character of the person on virginity. so better to keep both thing different. And about gaining trust of partner virginity is not the criteria.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Monika (07/29/15)
  • Losing virginity in India is a curse .Such people are no considered part o the society as they have lost an eseential element of their upgrowing life.Having disposition towards oder person may lead to premature sex and even sexual harassment can be proven perilous coz these ultimately leads to lose in virginity.Society condemns such people as vulgar and deny their involvement in auspicious ceremonies.But in my view losing virginity should not be considered as loss in character as they are different side of the same coin .Such people should be revered for their attitude and behaviour inspite of this issue.People need to broaden their mentality and think from the different perspective.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Trapti (07/28/15)
  • Why always husband asked to her wife she is vergin or not,why always question arises for girls virginity, why girls do not asked diz question bcz for them love do matters not virginity. If you love someone you do not asked diz silly question. I think if someone whom you love asked diz question, do not deserve u.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Trapti (07/28/15)
  • Why always husband asked to her wife she is vergin or not,why always question arises for girls virginity, why girls do not asked diz question bcz for them love do matters not virginity. If you love someone you do not asked diz silly question. I think if someone whom you love asked diz question, do not deserve u.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Trapti (07/28/15)
  • Why always husband asked to her wife she is vergin or not,why always question arises for girls virginity, why girls do not asked diz question bcz for them love do matters not virginity. If you love someone you do not asked diz silly question. I think if someone whom you love asked diz question, do not deserve u.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Trapti (07/28/15)
  • Why always husband asked to her wife she is vergin or not,why always question arises for girls virginity, why girls do not asked diz question bcz for them love do matters not virginity. If you love someone you do not asked diz silly question. I think if someone whom you love asked diz question, do not deserve u.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -sakshi (07/27/15)
  • Why is everyone only talking about a girl here..??
    What about a guy's virginity..no views on that..!!
    Why is only a girl subjected to such standards of virginity.
    How come the guys who are the reason for the girl losing her virginity are the ones who want virgin, pure wives..!!
    Hypocrites..!!
    And purity should be of heart and soul, not body. A women is capable to love as many times as she gets an opportunity. And if still virginity is that much important to you..maybe you have no faith in the power of love.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -gundo nemalili (07/19/15)
  • i think losing virginity before marriage is a big deal. Virginity dignifies ones marriage and if you are not virgin you cannot be brave enough to tell your partner that you are not.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Soumen Maity (06/15/15)
  • @prithviraj.
    Sorry if I spell it incorrectly. The thing about prostitution you said that girls play 'love game' when they are teenagers. But at that moment there is always a boy present too and that time he also loose his virginity. So why we always blame girls about loosing virginity all time. Why we can't simply accept that we are also to be blamed. That's define how much we Indians are mentally immature.

    Please if I say something wrong you all are welcome to correct me.
  • RE: Losing Virginity Before Marriage is a big deal -Soumen Maity (06/15/15)
  • I think conclusion of this topic depends on the type of marriage: Arrange or Love.

    If arrange then yes it could be a big deal as Indians are not so much modern countries like USA or UK. Because according to Indians virginity defines character of a women. So it could be a problem, but not always when the groom is mentally mature and has ability to understand what was the cause that girl is not virgin- was she raped or she is in relationship. Then it is not big deal then.

    2. In case of love marriage. I mean not just love real love, it is not a big deal. Because in that case couples will have mutual understanding and compromising.

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