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discussion > Arranged marriage is better than love marriage
The most convincing reason that proves arranged marriages is better than Love
marriages would be Statistics! In most cases, couples who had an arranged
marriage are more understanding towards each other.
In an arranged marriage, first few years of the marriage are spent in knowing
and understanding the person. There is a sense and demand of spending more time
with each other.
In a love marriage, before the marriage, the couple shares a very different
level of understanding. This understanding when tied to social obligations
expected once married, are difficult to obey.
It is easy to adjust with the partner in an arranged marriage as compared to
love marriage. This is because in a love marriage things may often be taken for
Since the partners have never met before, in an arranged marriage, they care
more about each others needs.
Arranged marriages help resolves domestic issues faster. There is a sense of
fear of loosing the partner.
For some unforeseen reason, the marriage does not work; there are many people
who will support more.
In most cases, love marriages force the couple to stay away from family. This
leaves them with no choice but to tackle their own problems.
In today’s busy lives no one has the time to understand each other after
Arranged marriage, most of the times works on compromises. In a love marriage
they were in love even before the marriage and hence compromises are less.
In an arranged marriage, social obligations can get frustrating at times.
Love married couples learn how to become independent since most of the times
they are separated and hence are able to tackle their problems.
A comfort level has already been developed between the couple.
Expectations from parents are less since most of the times decision of marrying
is usually initiated by the couple.
Whether it is love or arranged, trust, understanding and commitment is what
drives towards a successful marriage.
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