Friendship day has lost its charm.

Friendship day has lost its charm.


Introduction

Friendship Day, the day dedicated for the friends is mainly one of the various traditions of the western culture incorporated and imbibed by the youth of the present generation in India. Not only in India, but this day is adopted by many of the Asian countries in the recent decades. Friendship Day was promoted Joyce Hall, the founder of Hallmark cards in 1930 when the friendship day was celebrated by sending cards. Though its charm is lost in Europe very soon, but the trend is still prevailing in Asian countries. Friendship Day was celebrated with great eagerness and enthusiasm, but many people feel that Friendship Day has lost its charm now. Is that true?

Yes

- Friendship isn’t considered just a relation to be tied with a Friendship band. A friend bears much importance and he cannot be limited to a single day celebration.

- Friendship day had been a concept to catch hold some good old friends and plan a get together. In today’s generation, people remain in touch with every friend through the social networking sites.

- The social networking sites have eaten up most of the charm of the Friendship Day. Youngsters prefer to be glued to their Internet rather than an outing with the Friends.

- Tying up Friendship band seems childish to the youngsters and they try to prove their matured outlook by ignoring the Friendship bands.

- Friendship is more than an afternoon party or a night out with friends. Youngsters today party with their friends every now and then, so they hardly find any relevance of the same during the Friendship Day.

No

- Friendship is present in every relationship existing in this world. Such an important relationship definitely deserves a day for celebration.

- We can still find the school students maintaining the charisma of this day with their friendship bands and messages.

- Not only the youngsters, but even the adults remember to send the Friendship Day wishes through messages to their friends. Friendship greetings does not limit itself just with tying a band.

- Friendship Day refreshes the mind and good old memories, and people do try their best to plan an outing with their old friends on this day.

- Time has changed and so the generation. The youth a decade ago are now matured adults, who try to maintain the same old fashion of celebrating the Friendship Day, meeting their friends. The present generation youth has adopted a different pattern of celebrating the same through social networking and interactive messages.

Conclusion

Though the pattern of celebration has changed and it is understandable that the present day youth is more captive to the Internet world, still we cannot deny the fact that the celebration mood on a Friendship Day has somehow lost all that lustre and charm. The anxiety and enthusiasm that was seen a decade ago has vanished today. People hardly have time to maintain their friend circle, and if at all they do, they hardly remember a day like Friendship Day to acknowledge and respect the friendly relation. The generation with the same old pattern of celebrations and festivities would be the soul of life.
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  • RE: Friendship day has lost its charm. -Teena Bhatia (08/11/14)
  • Friendship day celebration started long back in 1919. It was started by Hallmark brand. It started as a day when people used to wish each other by sending cards. As the years passed by, the celebration for friendship day faded away. It lost its significance by 1940. However, it has gained utmost attention from last few years. Most of the countries celebrate the first Sunday of August as friendship day.

    Saying that friendship day has lost its meaning is totally irrelevant. People from different region and culture celebrate the day in special way. Education and the social websites are adding to the charm of the friendship day. They are adding to the celebrations and not reducing it in anyway. The only thing is the ways of celebration might differ from person to person. Technology has added the convenience in celebrating the friendship day. The simple SMS is also a celebration with the friends who are far away from us.

    All the people who value friendship, they remember the day and express their feelings towards other person in special ways. When we are blessed with true friends, we find time and occasion to show our affection for them. And friendship day is the most special way to express the gratitude towards friends.